Family First
There are many things that God decided to do that Scripture explains which I findincredible. Yet none compare with His decision in the beginning recorded in Genesis. Itis remarkable that the first institution God established was the family. From the family,everything else would be developed on the earth. Direction, responsibility, and influencewould all flow from the family as mankind carried out God’s mandate to rule over everyliving creature.Everything God established was designed to sustain the family. From creation to theRapture, God’s plan is built around the family. His creation of male and female led to theunion of husband and wife, and from that union came children. As families grew, clansand tribes were formed. From these tribes came cities, nations, and ultimately the worldas we know it today.It was through the family of Abraham and Sarah that God promised to bless the entireearth (Genesis 12:1–3; 18:18–19). The importance of family is also seen in thequalifications for leadership in the church, where a person must demonstrate the abilityto manage his household well (1 Timothy 3:4–5). This is because the relationshipbetween husband and wife reflects the foundational principles of how the churchfunctions (Ephesians 5:32).For those who are single, God provides the church as a surrogate family, wherebelievers grow together in fellowship, support, and spiritual maturity (Acts 2:42–47;Ephesians 3:14–15; 4:12–16).A father’s God-directed role toward his children reveals important principles about howGod relates to His own children (Luke 11:11–13; Hebrews 12:9–10). As a father lovinglyprovides, guides, and disciplines his children, he reflects the character and care of ourHeavenly Father. A man who fears God and faithfully serves his family positions himselfto receive God’s blessings, both in his home and through the life of the church.Scripture teaches that the man who walks in the fear of the Lord will experienceblessings in his family and even the favor of a long and fruitful life (Psalm 128).Family is therefore central to all that God does. Even thousands of years later, mankindstill recognizes the family as one of the most important foundations of life. Today wehave confused family with many other things and have made it an option rather than asignificant and essential part of our lives.A cute little girl was sitting on top of a pile of luggage in a hotel lobby while her parentswere at the desk registering for their room. A sympathetic lady asked the little girl if theywere visiting relatives in the city.“Oh, no,” the girl replied. “We’re going to live at this hotel until we find a house. MyDaddy has a new job, and we had to sell our house and move.” The lady responded kindly, “Oh, it’s too bad you don’t have a home.”The little girl quickly replied, “Oh, we have a home—it’s just that we don’t have a houseto put it in.”This little girl understood something that many adults miss: a house is not the same asa home, and a home is built by a family.God understood the importance of family when He chose Abraham. The Lord was notonly concerned with Abraham’s personal faith, but also with how Abraham would leadhis household. Scripture says:“The LORD said, ‘Shall I hide from Abraham what I am about to do, since Abraham willsurely become a great and mighty nation, and in him all the nations of the earth will beblessed? For I have chosen him, so that he may command his children and hishousehold after him to keep the way of the LORD by doing righteousness and justice,so that the LORD may bring upon Abraham what He has spoken about him.’”(Genesis 18:17–19, NASU)God chose Abraham not simply to start a nation, but to lead a family that would walk inthe ways of the Lord. The strength of the nation would grow out of the strength of thefamily.










